Make friends through online text chat

Begin with a small question

Say hello and ask something easy to answer: What music have you enjoyed lately? What made you smile today? Read the recent conversation before posting so your message fits the discussion.

For a first visit, our guide to guest chat without registration explains how to choose a name and post a message.

Give a conversation time

People may be reading, typing or away from the screen. Avoid repeating a message to demand a reply. If nobody is around, return at a hosted welcome time when one is announced, or start a member forum discussion that others can answer later.

Build familiarity

Return to conversations you enjoy. After registering, use friend invitations to keep in touch; the other person chooses whether to accept. A thoughtful profile introduction can help people find common interests without revealing personal details.

Explore the chat and friendship features available to members when you want to keep a conversation going.

Respect privacy

Do not pressure someone to reply, send photos or share contact details. Use the messaging controls available to you and respect other people’s preferences. Contact staff through Site Help if a conversation becomes uncomfortable.

Read the community rules for respectful online conversation for more guidance on boundaries.